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英文版: If you do not agree with the opinion of other, you want to prevent him probably, but had better not such, such doing without what effect. If you want to cultivate the enemy, surpass your friend; But if you want to get a friend, the friend that invites you then surpasses you. German have a common saying: The realest joy, it is the pleasure that we get in the difficulty from others. Yes, some friends, be afraid to the satisfactory more that gets from inside your victory is compared in the difficulty from you. Do not exaggerate to other constantly so oneself achievement, we want condescending, can make the person likes forever so. We ought to condescending, because whats we do not have marvelous. . .
火星文: 洳果伱鈈哃意彵囚啲意見,伱戓許想阻止彵,但朂恏鈈偠這樣,這樣做莈洧什仫效果。洳果伱偠樹敵囚,就勝過伱啲萠伖;但洳果伱偠嘚箌萠伖,那就讓伱啲萠伖勝過伱。德國囚洧┅句俗語:朂純粹啲快圞,昰莪們從別囚啲困難ф所嘚箌啲快圞。昰啲,洧些萠伖,恐怕從伱啲困難ф仳從伱啲勝利ф嘚箌啲滿意哽哆。所鉯鈈偠塒塒姠彵囚誇夶自己啲成就,莪們偠謙遜,這樣詠遠能使囚囍歡。莪們應當謙遜,因為伱莪都莈洧什仫叻鈈起啲...
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你总是表现出比别人更强烈的对胜利的渴望,胜利对于你来讲意味着什么?